To Be Authentically Brave

I have grappled with this notion of bravery for awhile now as I have always gravitated to what I thought was its purpose, and for me I thoughts its value was purely to be strong

However in a new season of struggle I have discovered that true bravery exists in the vulnerability to expose yourself in a way that offers humility, compassion, and a willingness to learn and grow

I am not denying my ability to withstand great battles in the midst of some chaotic moments however, I also see this bravery in a meekness that comes from the authenticity of allowing yourself to be known

I have been able to shift my mind to not just see that strength is the identity of brave but that questionably strength can also be an attribute of weakness when we reach out in moments we are alone

It takes immense courage to reveal yourself in moments of need and desperation, and it's terrifying especially if you are met with unresponsiveness or unwillingness to provide aid

However I have to believe and hope with what I have endured and experienced that even if takes time, it is worth the journey and perhaps here better quality of support is found when we wait

So my friend, if you aspire to be brave I hope you find its identity not just in your mountain defeating moments but also in the times you never gave up and allowed yourself support and rest

Your capacity to sustain in moments of endearment but also in the moment you share your level of despair are both simultaneously the moments where you have sincerely given your best