It's hard sometimes when conflict arises, or misunderstanding and even disparity compels us to take action
Can you imagine though if we fought every thing that within ourselves didn't sit right? Its true that often not all things need our reaction
We will be confronted with differing values and opinions regularly, we all have our our own experiences, so not all perspectives will align
What I've learnt is it can be tiresome work to constantly voice or dispute differences, your own personal values doesn't need to be always defined
It is exhausting really to be relentlessly objecting your own individual beliefs and notions, I find it's not fruitful to always pursue
So pick your battles, even if there is injustice, sometimes the most important person to know your stance and validate yourself is just you
If you choose to be slow to respond, you may find you hear your inner voice say not this one, learn to within yourself trust
Sometimes savouring or releasing a relationship or avoiding extra conflict, that could have negative impact is more important, even if it feels unjust
It's an evolvement, a growth development that can create wisdom, it's unrealistic to think that everything should be left unsaid
As you reflect, can you truly conclude that all things you've voiced have evoked a positive outcome in the end?
Savour your energy, for life's battles are large, use your voice for the things that are going to create positive change and influence
Sometimes efforts can only lead to disappointment when we are met with unresponsiveness, stirring the pot can to ourselves be just a nuisance
Be intentional, sit in your own thoughts, emotions, and create room to listen to your mind, as you identify what is in your best interest to fight
You are important and being kind to yourself also means creating boundaries in how you outsource your vivacity, it's not always about being right
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